Friday, 6 May 2011


In most things, there is no perfect. I bet. Life is composed of shades of gray. If you expect to see perfections in everything, then head down! you will be disappointed and your self-esteem will become lowered. tell me which of the things you see or know, precisely described as "PERFECT"?

Lets just say, there is a guy sees a 'drop dead gorgeous girl walking down the street with flawless skin, red hot chilli peppers pouty lips, with a nice, sexy toned body, who has a tight perky butt' he instantly takes a clause of 'she is too perfect for words' and the description goes on.. he is right, in fact we do that as well, we often get blinded by the beautiful looks someone has, and assume he or she is perfect just because he or she got the plus point for the looks. but, behind all the perfect descriptions, do you actually know how she is? 

the guy might have this thought to walk up to the girl and suggests to form good bond between them. there are two possible things would happen : 1) the guy admires the beautiful looks she has and falls head over heels in love with her, he even thinks the girl blows off his mind in every way or 2) the guy admires the beautiful looks she has and when he is given an opportunity to walk on her shoes, he will be able to pinpoint her flaws immediately and the relationship or even worst the friendship ends.

sometimes you may look at someone or something as beautiful matter but everything has its pros and cons or everyone has their own good and bad qualities. Sometimes we look people in the spotlight and picture them as perfection. and we often put hopes on a certain someone defining perfect, he/she will never be a let down to us. that is absofuckinglutely wrong! never hope for someone to be perfect as you want them to be. if you catch them doing mistakes, do not judge, as the mistakes they make, become their lessons in life. 

iN LIFE, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don’t really have to go looking for them.We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying things when we can look around us and see the wondrous things before us?

I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST WHEN we see and praise the good and try our best to forego the mistakes of our  partner/friend.
Nobody’s perfect but we can find perfection in them to change the way we see them. Its is necessary to understand the difficulties and be a helping hand to each other….THAT BRIGHTENS THE RELATIONSHIP.

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